Give Yourself To Love Level 1 Workshop

Create the relationship you have always wanted.

Our relationship workshops have been developed from decades of experience working with singles and couples to help them use effective tools for dealing with trust issues with their partners, deepen intimacy, resolve conflict, and for finding life long partners.

Ready to embark on this journey with us?

We’ll Be Frank With You… 

You’re here because you need some new input in your relationship life. You know you can’t keep going like you’ve been going, and heck, even if could stand it a bit longer, you’re DONE! You want a better way to relate, and you’re here to decide if Give Yourself to Love is what you need.

We’ll be totally straight with you here. We’ve conducted this workshop for hundreds and hundreds of couples and singles and we’ve witnessed immense and often miraculous turn-arounds every single time.

We’ve stopped counting how many couples have come to the workshop as a very last-ditch resort and have walked out of there hand in hand with renewed hope and affection. Likewise we stopped counting how many single men and women have come, skeptic at first, but after just two days their hearts and minds blown open to love again. Some of them even met their sweetheart at one of our workshops! (we don’t promise that:-)



 It’s not therapy. It’s not processing. It’s not digging around in whatever mistakes you’ve made and “baggage” you carry. You won’t be talking about your problems. You won’t be fixing your partner (or ex’s, or whomever you think is a thorn in your harmony).

You WILL, however, get a totally new and dramatically different understanding of what love and relationship is all about. You’ll see you’ve been living in a tiny box of what is even possible. You WILL discover why you haven’t been able to consistently create what you want, and you WILL be able to do just that.

You WILL learn how to DO love, and not only that, you will BE in love over and over again. You’ll be amazed at the level of safety and connection you can create in a short time, with each other or with new friends.

You WILL get a super simple but incisive tool to identify, modify, or discard limiting beliefs that are messing with you. You WILL know why you feel bad when you’re triggered, and it’s not what you assume.

You WILL be equipped with relationship tools that will last you as long as you live.

And here’s another let’s-be-frank moment: Nothing is a bigger waste of time and will suck the joy right of your love life than not knowing what to do make it better, while you watch yourself doing the same old whatever you do. You’ll be in relationship till the day you die, so why not figure out how to do it better and reap infinite rewards of laughter, easy times, glorious lovemaking, and great companionship?!

We’ve had people, both couples and singles, tell us they got more out of this workshop than 2 years of therapy!


You Have Everything TO WIN!

 So come join us. Whatever you need to do to get there; wherever you need to fly in from; commit to making it work, and you’ll see great things happen! $997 per person is a lot less outlay than years of further processing and annoyance over not having the joyous, loving, intimate relationship you desire!

Available dates are posted below.

And Don’t Take OUR WORD FOR IT

Here’s what other people said who came to Give Yourself to Love

“Scott and I returned from our workshop feeling so close and in love. It was so amazing for both of us. I feel that we renewed our marriage vows without even knowing it.”

“After my marriage ended, I had no clue how to start a new relationship without repeating the old patterns. After GYTL, I cracked open to deep love. I’m am now together with Wade, and finally creating the relationship I’ve always wanted”

“I just have to thank you two so much for what you have done for me.  Everything in my life is just beyond anything I could have imagined before working with you!  I am always joyful, grateful and peaceful.  I am so freakin’ happy, sometimes I feel as if my heart is going to burst out of my chest! My relationship with Joe just keeps getting better and better.  Everyday I am so grateful for the deep love we share and how EASY it all is.”     

Here’s Exactly What You’ll Get at
Give Yourself to Love

  • A new understanding of what relationships are all about that will allow you to blast through your “box” and erase the limitations of your current relationship model!
  • Powerful, quick method to see and interact with the very best of your partner/s
    (a truly visionary tool)
  • Look at each other like you used to – through the eyes of love
  • How to end complaining and fighting in a minute!
  • Simple and extremely effective model for identifying what truly upsets you, and how to change it (When you don’t know what truly upsets you, you have zero chance of fixing it).
  • In addition: Practical tools for creating intimacy and love on the spot (with whomever you desire); practicing honesty and authenticity in a safe container (remember, you never have to air your “dirty laundry”); be surprised that “working on your relationship can be so fun” (a woman who’d been through two years of therapy said that); and LOTS more. 


Cost: For our first-ever virtual Give Yourself to Love, the fee to attend is $397 per couple or any two people (best deal used to be $397 per person!)

For singles, we encourage you to invite a friend or a potential love-interest to do exercises with.

When: January 23-24, 2021

Hours: Saturday and Sunday, 9am – 1pm both days.

Where:The workshop takes place via Zoom. Which means you can attend the workshop from your couch, kitchen table, or bedroom. 

We look very forward to supporting you and helping your relationship be everything you dream of!

With Love,

Sonika & Christian

My privacy is important – do I have to ‘air my dirty laundry’?

No, absolutely not. You get to decide what and how much you share every step along the way. We create a very safe, relaxed, light-hearted environment within which to learn new ways to be in relationship.

I’m busy. I just don’t have time for this.

Yes, we certainly know what it’s like to have a full plate. After going to work, dealing with kids, cooking, cleaning, shopping, and paying the bills, what time is left to focus on your relationship? We want to invite you to ask yourself, “What are my priorities? What’s really important for me and my family?” After having worked with hundreds of couples, we can state clearly that you don’t have time NOT to invest in your relationship. Just think how much time you’ve wasted in unproductive arguments that went nowhere. Don’t waste another precious moment.

Can I get my money back?

We stand behind the quality and transformative power of our workshop. Our Full Satisfaction Guarantee to you is this: You can register and attend the entire workshop, and if afterwards you didn’t think it was hugely useful and transformative, you may ask for you money back, and you’ll get it. No questions asked, and we can part as friends. (Please note you do need to attend the entire workshop)

I’m Single – is this for me?

Absolutely! We always have singles at Give Yourself to Love. There is no better way to create your dream relationship than to immerse yourself in a relationship world right now.
By the way, did you know that the skills you need to get into relationship are the very same you will need to keep a relationship growing? Many a single person has left our course and quickly created a love relationship, just from practicing our new relationship paradigm skills!

Money’s pretty tight right now…

Yes, we understand that can sometime be a challenge. But trust us when we say, the price of admission is A LOT less expensive than legal council! Commit to making it happen; go for creating a miracle. Or call us if you need help to get creative, we’ve helped many people make it happen.

Is one workshop really going to make a difference?

YES! We’ve stopped counting how many people have been totally floored at the transformation from this one weekend. Silvia said (she came with her husband as an absolute last ditch effort), “Oh my God! Everything is different! I got my husband back!” And take another look at the testimonials throughout this page.

I don’t like big groups.

We create a very safe and intimate environment for you. You will not be the first one to have attended who had that concern. Much of the time, you will be in smaller groups, or with your partner. Not to worry, we take good care of you.

We’re not even sure we want to stay together.

Perfect. Lots of couples have come to Give Yourself to Love on the brink of divorce and totally turned their relationship around, and gotten their husband or wife “back”. Some have gone on to create loving, cooperative separations. No matter what you choose with your current relationship, you will leave feeling much more confident in your ability to create a positive relationship experience going forward.

We just met. We’re in love. We don’t have any problems.

Congratulations. How wonderful. What you’ll learn at Give Yourself to Love will give you surefire ways to KEEP that in-love state going forever, instead of spiraling downhill after 6-12 months. Remember, all relationships started out with lots of love and no problems. If you have the right paradigm and tools, it is completely possible to keep it that way (and if you don’t, the “honeymoon” will surely end)

We’re not doing THAT bad. We’ll get support later…

That’s what our friend Steve said before his wife crossed the Tipping Point and she was off with another man. He figured “we’ll deal with the problems some day”. Except, some day never came. And now it’s too late. Pay attention to the warning signs, and DO NOT wait till “some day”.

Do we have to be there for the whole weekend?

Yes. No exceptions. Give Yourself to Love is a whole, coherent experience. If you can’t make the entire training, change your schedule or book a weekend that works better for you.

My partner doesn’t want to come – what do I do?

Commit to attending anyway, no matter what. YOU want a fabulous relationship, yes? YOU know you can’t keep going as you have been! So come on your own. Your commitment is the best way to invite your partner to join you. You can even say to your partner, “I’m committed to doing what it takes to make this relationship amazing. I’m going to Give Yourself to Love. I really want you to come. Would you be willing to come with me?” If your partner has reservations, you can invite him or her to contact us. Sometimes speaking with us can help build trust and mitigate fears and concerns. But if your partner insists on not attending, come by yourself. We have seen many people unilaterally turn their relationship around.

Are we going to be sitting on our butts for two days?

We do provide chairs to sit on 🙂 But no, Give Yourself to Love is not a lecture where you’re sitting on your butt for two days while we drone on. We know that you learn much better when you are engaged and actively participating in exercises, so you can actually experience what we are teaching. Our relationship training is continuously shifting from class-style teaching, to break-out groups, to paired exercises and large group activities. At our last training, Steve said, “This is the first workshop I’ve ever been to where I haven’t looked at the clock once!”

We need childcare – what do we do?

We recommend doing your best to take care of your child(ren). Ask your parents, friends, or neighbors. You might even try asking the “angels” for a miracle in the childcare department (incidentally, you would not be the first who had gotten childcare for the training that way:-) You going to Give Yourself to Love is the best gift you can ever give your child(ren).

We can’t make it to the date listed here.

When you register for Give Yourself to Love, you have the right to reschedule your date one time to another training.