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Understanding Women

As a heterosexual man married to a woman, I can safely say that being in relationship with Sonika, and other women before her, has provided me with the biggest continual learning opportunity and the biggest blessing of my life. In previous relationships, I routinely...

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How To Make Your Wife Happy

During my years of relationship coaching, I can’t tell you how many men have said something like this to me: “If only I had a bullet point list of what to do to make her happy”. In this brief post, I’ll give you just that, a bullet list with 6 points for what to do to...

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How Am I Just Like That?

Change is afoot. Ford came forward to speak of having been sexually assaulted in high school by Kavanaugh, who vehemently denies any wrongdoing. Bill Cosby was sentenced to 3-10 years in prison after being found guilty of sexual assault. The MeToo movement has...

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Opening To Love

My husband Christian and I have been busy of late. Distracted. More in our heads than our hearts. We felt a bit flat and off. I was definitely not in my feminine receptive loving flow – more in my masculine “doingness.” When it came time for dropping back into our...

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Wanna Scream? Put Yourself First!

A mother of three recently confessed to me in private, “I just don’t have it in me to work on my relationship or give to my husband. I feel so depleted and spent. My heart is shut down. I go from work to taking care of our kids and back to work again. I am over the...

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Don't You Hate It When He …. ?

Don't you hate it when he says, "I'm fine", but you know there's something going on? Don't you hate it when he insist on staying in denial and just keeps saying, "I'm okay!" when it's obvious to you that he's either lying or being oblivious? And don't you hate it when...

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