Sonika and I enjoy a good series as much as the next binge watcher. Given our profession, it’s perhaps not surprising that we like shows where human relationships are front and center, such as This Is Us and A Million Little Things. But...
Isn’t it funny how we always put sex and pleasure in relationship last on our list of priorities? Well, more sad than funny, really. Sex is last on our list It’s like anything that feels good only happens after everything else is done – which you may have noticed...
What is a Love Strategy? It's the unique way in which you arrive at the experience of feeling loved. If the "What" is feeling loved, then your Love Strategy is the "How". Everyone has their own strategy for feeling loved. Love Strategy is an idea from Neuro-Linguistic...
Love gives. This is no more obvious than at the beginning of relationship. When we are in love, we are generous with our giving. We bestow upon our beloved an abundance of touch and attention. It comes naturally to offer gifts and love...
In your relationship, are you typically the one who is pulling for more time together, or the one resisting your partner’s pull for more time? When it comes to spending more time together vs not spending enough time together vs spending too much time together in your...
What do you do if you’re getting married but at the same time feeling scared to get married? I remember we once coached a young couple who came to us 4-5 months prior to their already scheduled wedding. They came to us because she in particular was getting very cold...
Last week we published a video post entitled “How to Make Your Husband Happy” that included a few tips from us on what works for men. A couple of the things we recommended were to “Tell him he is a good man” and “Give him points for effort”. This week we published...
During my years of relationship coaching, I can’t tell you how many men have said something like this to me: “If only I had a bullet point list of what to do to make her happy”. In this brief post, I’ll give you just that, a bullet list with 6 points for what to do to...
How often do spouses wonder how to make their partner happy? Do you ever wonder how to make your husband happy? Does it sometimes seem that what you’re doing must not be working, because he doesn’t seem all that happy? (This post has a twin, how to make your wife...
