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Why Can’t I Commit in a Relationship?

Do you ever ask yourself, “Why can’t I commit in a relationships?” Or do you ask this question about your partner(s), wondering why THEY can’t commit to you? If you have a desire for long term loving relationships, it can be really confusing and agonizing if you keep...

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We’re Getting a Divorce – What to Do?

If you have reached the point where you’re saying, “We are getting a divorce! What do I do?” then this post is a place for you to start. The first thing to be aware of is that your mind is going to want all the answers right this second! Divorce creates a tremendous...

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Having Fun in Relationship

Have you ever heard the saying, “Couples who play together, stay together”? A quick Google search into this saying yields some interesting hits, for example a study from 2012 [https://berkeleysciencereview.com/2012/01/couples-who-play-together-stay-together] where...

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The Subtle Ways Trust in a Relationship Is Broken

I was coaching a couple this week about how they take turns getting angry and shutting down in silence. During our session, she said she often felt a lack of trust, which impacted her desire and ability to open up to him. This is a frequent comment from couples. Plus,...

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Avoiding Conflict in Relationship

Avoiding conflicts in relationship makes for big shocks She had the same old fight she always had with her husband, but this time, he threw his hands up and said he was done. She was shocked when he took off his ring and moved out of the bedroom. He rarely comes home...

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Sex in relationship is last on the to-do list

Isn’t it funny how we always put sex and pleasure in relationship last on our list of priorities? Well, more sad than funny, really. Sex is last on our list It’s like anything that feels good only happens after everything else is done – which you may have noticed...

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Freedom In Relationship

        When we coach couples, a frequent concern is freedom in relationship. Or rather, the lack of freedom and the fear of losing freedom inside a marriage or long-term relationship. This also shows up for singles wanting a committed...

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Spending more time together vs more time apart

In your relationship, are you typically the one who is pulling for more time together? Or would you be quite happy spending less time together? When it comes to spending more or less time together in your relationship, there are essentially three different states you...

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Scared To Get Married?

What do you do if you’re getting married but at the same time feeling scared to get married? I remember we once coached a young couple who came to us 4-5 months prior to their already scheduled wedding. They came to us because she in particular was getting very cold...

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