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Are you in a toxic relationship? Struggling with emotional intimacy? Does your husband value you? Looking to deepen intimacy in your marriage? Has trust been broken in your relationship? Wondering why your spouse or partner is emotionally unavailable? Or are you single and looking for dating advice or help creating new relationships? On this blog you’ll find practical insights and advice on many different relationship issues from us and other relationship experts.

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach

Mar 43 min read

Trust in a Relationship

Going through Darkness Together

I was feeling off the last few weeks. I had several days of migraines and my joints were hurting. There was a lack of flow in my business...

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Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach

Jul 14, 20233 min read

Fights and Arguments

Coming Back Together After Fights

What happens in your relationship after you have a fight or any kind of upset? I don’t mean how you got into the fight. I mean, what...

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Relationships Issues And High Expectations

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach

Sep 15, 20225 min read

Relationship Issues

Relationships Issues And High Expectations

As a younger man, I really wanted to find “The One”. I was much too private to tell anyone, but I dreamed of a happy-ever-after ending to...

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Sonika Tinker, MSW, Co-Founder

Apr 6, 20226 min read

Relationship Issues

The Victim Strategy In Relationship

What is your first response when you hit a wall? When your partner disappoints you or when you don’t get what you want? Do you … Back off...

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Protecting The Vulnerable Parts Of Your Relationship

Sonika Tinker, MSW, Co-Founder

Mar 7, 20226 min read

Intimacy

Protecting The Vulnerable Parts Of Your Relationship

Have you ever had a hard time softening and reconnecting with your partner after being hurt, misunderstood, or unfairly blamed? Is it ...

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Physical And Emotional Intimacy In A Relationship

Nov 2, 20216 min read

Intimacy (in a marriage)

Physical And Emotional Intimacy In A Relationship

In our work, we often coach and teach couples about physical and emotional intimacy in a marriage or long-term relationship. In ...

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Mar 31, 20217 min read

Intimacy

Relational Disconnection

I’m reading a great book called Why Are All The Black Kids Sitting Together In The Cafeteria by Dr. Beverly Tatum. In the chapter I was...

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Sep 14, 20206 min read

Intimacy

Having Fun In Relationship

Have you ever heard the saying, “Couples who play together, stay together”? A quick Google search into this saying yields some...

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Sex in relationship is last on the to-do list

Sonika Tinker, MSW, Co-Founder

Aug 24, 20205 min read

Sex (in a relationship)

Sex in relationship is last on the to-do list

Isn’t it funny how we always put sex and pleasure in relationship last on our list of priorities? Well, more sad than funny, really. Sex...

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Sonika Tinker, MSW, Co-Founder

Aug 20, 20203 min read

Intimacy

Love Strategy

What is a Love Strategy? It’s the unique way in which you arrive at the experience of feeling loved. If the “What” is feeling loved, then...

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Aug 4, 20205 min read

Intimacy

Spending More vs. Less Time Together

In your relationship, are you typically the one who is pulling for more time together, or the one resisting your partner’s pull for more...

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Jul 6, 20205 min read

Fights and Arguments

How To Control Anger In A Relationship

How do you get anger in a relationship under control? That is a very big topic and there are a lot of important angles to cover about...

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Sonika Tinker, MSW, Co-Founder

Jun 1, 202010 min read

Intimacy

Reviving Intimacy and Passion.

Why does intimacy and passion die over time in relationship? In the beginning of relationship, we are open and in a mood of wonder about...

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May 26, 20207 min read

Trust in a Relationship

My Wife Doesn't Respect Me.

"My wife doesn’t respect me! What should I do?" This is a refrain we often hear from husbands. Obviously, we would all hope that our...

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How to Deal with an Emotionally Unavailable Partner

May 14, 20204 min read

Emotional Intimacy

How to Deal with an Emotionally Unavailable Partner

When you have the experience of your partner being emotionally unavailable, you’re probably feeling that you’re not being “met”, that ...

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May 4, 20206 min read

Emotional Intimacy

How To Make Marriage Fun Again

Anyone else feel like “Groundhog Day” in your marriage these days? Other than stuff we find on our screens, there’s a whole lot less ...

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Apr 16, 20205 min read

Increase Intimacy

Get To Know Your Spouse Again

When you’ve been together with someone for a while, maybe even several decades, it’s easy to lose your sense of curiosity and assume you...

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Feb 2, 20206 min read

Intimacy

Making Bids In A Relationship

“Hey honey, check out what I found on Facebook!” “Why are you showing me that garbage? Stop wasting time on your phone!" Ouch. Anyone...

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Sonika Tinker, MSW, Co-Founder

Aug 14, 20197 min read

Intimacy

Loneliness in relationship

Are you lonely? You are not alone. Recent studies suggest that about half of Americans feel lonely. Our networks, social interactions...

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Sonika Tinker, MSW, Co-Founder

Aug 30, 20183 min read

Sex (in a relationship)

How To Have Transcendental Sex

When we make love with our partner, I believe we secretly long to have a shared soul-merging experience of eternity and bliss with our...

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